5 things I’ve learnt from 12 months in the Book Blogging community

Hi everyone,

I wanted to take a moment to reflect on the past 12 months since discovering some little sub-groups within the book blogging community.

I had no idea exactly how many book bloggers there were, or that blogging was such a big thing (I feel so old and out of touch saying this!) but I was pleasantly surprised at how many of us there are world-wide. There are two groups in particular that I’ve been a part of quite actively over the past year (although not as active as other members), both of which have Discord chats where we can chat, share posts/reviews, ask each other for help etc and just generally interact.

My first feeling when I discovered these groups was “O wow! I’m finally going to make some friends that really get my love of books and I’ll we’ll end up lifelong friends!” Naïve of me, yes, I know.

Not only do I suck at social interactions normally, but when I’m not faced with talking to people face to face, I often forget to reach out and chat. Meeting people in these online groups obviously was never going to be easy for me.

In that time, I’ve learnt a few things and I wanted to share 5 of these with you, in no particular order of importance, just what came to my head first.

  1. I’m against bullying, discrimination etc like I think the vast majority of the world is. However, I’ve noticed some differences between my laid back Aussie view and those of some people in other countries. In some cases I even felt attacked for asking for the other sides point of view or suggesting that maybe someone was taking something a little bit too seriously. I mean, what has the world come to if you can’t even crack a joke?
  2. There’s a vast range of experience with blogging from those who are yet to start and those who have been doing it for years. Naturally everyone is going to have different levels of knowledge, experience etc and we all have different paces of learning. I’ve found that although some people are incredibly patient, others aren’t so much.
  3. There are so many tour organisers out there that work with authors to find bloggers, distribute books and create artwork etc. I’ve been working with Rach Random Resources the longest, then Dave at The Write Reads and I recently tried out Goddess Fish. They each do things a little bit differently so depending on how you like to work will depend on which organiser is best for you as a blogger.
  4. It’s possible to ask authors and publishers for ARCs (advanced reading copies) of books. This can be done in a lot of ways, from approaching authors or publishers directly, and from other sources like NetGalley. At this stage I’ve only used NetGalley as I’m kept pretty busy with my TBR pile, Rach Random Resources tours and the requests I get from authors. At the moment I haven’t really had time or the desire to approach authors or publishers directly with everything else I’ve had going on in my life this yr.
  5. Like every part of society, there’s nice bloggers and some not so nice bloggers. I get that we’re never going to like everyone we come across. I’m adult and mature enough to understand this and not expect to like everyone I come across. Yet some of the bloggers that I’ve come across are older than me, and act like teenagers that haven’t learnt how to be polite yet. In those situations, I try and do the mature thing by calmly and logically explaining my point of view and then walk away. Or I just don’t engage and stay out of it. I don’t have the time or mental capacity to deal with that kind of behaviour. I avoid it in my real life, so there’s no way I’d want to be a part of it in my digital life.

I’d love to hear what others have found from being involved in various book blogging communities, so please comment and tell me what you think!


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12 Replies to “5 things I’ve learnt from 12 months in the Book Blogging community”

  1. I like changing how I move around the book blogging community so that I can find new bloggers and new books and authors.
    Best wishes for the next year of your book reviewing.

  2. Oh – I’m so sorry that you came across some not-so-nice bloggers out there ! I think of myself lucky enough to not having crossed many yet; but like you said, in any space there’s bound to be un-friendlier people :/

    You’re also right about people defending their opinions a little bit too much sometimes, it can be harder to decode the written words and give them the right canotation — Sometimes it may just be the best thing to just drop it all off before it goes to hell.

    Also, I just wanna point out how much I love the name “goddess fish” xd ahah

    1. How great is the name Goddess Fish?! It’s certainly memorable!

      I do agree that the written word can be harder to decipher compared to when you’re with someone in person. But that’s a challenge that won’t be going anywhere in the near future what with the world becoming more and more digital!

    1. On the whole, yes the community is amazingly welcoming! It’s just those few who make it difficult sometimes. It’s so great that we have such a great community.

    1. I know right! I try not to ask for too many coz then you do feel overwhelmed. On the other hand I did so many this yr I actually really wanna go back to my TBR more

  3. I do my best to avoid the drama, I don’t have the time or inclination for it. I find niche communities like romance and YA in particular tend to be very insular, I prefer to interact with a wide spectrum from the community, and I’m always looking for new to me blogs to follow. In 2020 my book blog will be ten years old but there is still plenty of bloggers out there I’m yet to discover.

    Happy 1st Blogoversary

    1. O wow! You’re way more experienced than me! I was blogging for about 9 months until I discovered the community and I keep finding more as time goes on. Thank you for coming to visit 🙂

  4. I enjoyed your post but was sorry to hear you’ve met some book bloggers that were difficult to get along with. That’s a real shame. I hope you can make our Melbourne GR Aussie Reads catch-up, it’d be great to meet you face to face and I guarantee we’re all terrific people, down to earth and easy to get along with.

    1. I’m really hoping to make it! It’s my partner’s birthday weekend so it’s all going to depend on what gets organised for that weekend. It sounds like great fun so fingers crossed I can make it!

      I accept that there’s 0% chance I’ll like everyone I meet and I’m ok with that. So long as people stay civil I’m ok with that.

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